10 reasons (in no particular order) that Kendall's Daddy is Amazing

1. He knows all about breastfeeding, breast pumps, milk supply, etc. He was my rock through our breastfeeding troubles! I couldn't have kept up with pumping as long as I did without his help.

2. He wants Kendall to grow up knowing Jesus and that He loves us and that we are saved by grace through faith. 

3. When someone said that if you respond right away to a crying baby you are "spoiling them" and by letting them cry it out you "toughen them up" he replied, "By responding to a crying baby right away you teach them they can trust you".

4. He likes to get down on the floor and play with Kendall and her cousins.

5. He shows Kendall that he loves her Mommy. I feel pretty lucky that she gets to have parents that are very much in love with each other.

6. He loves holidays and celebrating them.

7. He works so very hard so that I can go to school and take care of Kendall.

8. He always puts Kendall and I first.

9. He loves to do things with his family.

10. He takes such great care of us! We love him so much and are so greatful to him!

Happy Father's Day, Gary!

I have a confession

Sometimes we co-sleep. I know many people believe that this is a horrible thing to do. I've heard all the reasons why. It's hard on a marriage to have a child in bed with you. The child will form the habit of sleeping with you and you won't be able to break it. You might roll over on your baby.

Kendall and I co-sleeping when she was 2 weeks old

It started when Kendall was first born. You know how people say newborns are only awake for an hour or so at a time? They lied were mistaken. Kendall was a night owl for the first 2 months of here life. She would be awake from 10 or 11pm until 4 or 5am every single night. She didn't fuss or cry, unless I tried to put her down. She would just lay in my arms. Sometimes she'd drift off and I'd ever so carefully put her in her bassinet. It never failed. The instant she was out of my arms her eyes would pop open and she would demand to be picked back up. I've never been big on the whole let them cry it out idea so back to my arms she would go. This is how we started to co-sleep. I would eventually fall asleep on the couch holding Kendall. It was the only way I got any sleep. At 2 months she started to sleep some at night in her crib and has been a pretty good sleeper ever since. But on nights when she is fussy, teething, sick.... We bring her to bed with us. She always starts the night in her own bed. If she wakes up we try all of the obvious things (diaper, drink, etc). If all of that checks out ok and she is still not wanting to sleep we simply bring her into our room. It doesn't happen all that often. A few times a month. But we don't see any harm in it. It hasn't formed a pattern so we don't feel that it's becoming a "habit". If she wakes up seeking the comfort of her parents we feel like it's ok to give that to her. We don't worry about squishing her and our marriage has grown stronger through parenting Kendall together. Nothing makes my heart melt the way it does watching Gary love our daughter. And who wouldn't want to wake up to Kendall's sweet little face!

Nanny's Birthday

Today was Gary's Grandma's birthday. We celebrated by going out for supper together. We met first to attempt to take some family pictures. Next time we will have to plan it better and take the pictures after we eat because the kids were restless. Here's what we ended up with:

4 Generations: Mom- Debbie holding baby Riley, Great Grandma Maryleene and Grandma Trudy

4Generations: Dad-Gary holding Kendall, Great Grandma Maryleene and Grandma Trudy

4 Generations: Dad- Adam holding Brady, Great Grandma Maryleene and Grandma Trudy

Brady (4) and Riley (2 weeks)

Kendall and Brady- 2 peas in a pod

Have you ever tried to take a picture of 5 children? Here's how it goes:

Take 1

Take 2

Take 3

Good enough for now, better luck next time

Wordless Wednesday: Baby Love

Introducing Riley

Riley James, May 25th 2011, 7 lbs 4 ozs, 20 1/4 inches

His beautiful Mommy, Debbie

Proud Daddy, Ricky

Trisha and RJ, his brother and sister. They live in Oklahoma with their mom but we are thrilled to have them here for 7 weeks.

I love this picture.

Kendall really likes her new cousin and wants so badly to hold him.

My dear Riley, I am so excited that I get to be your auntie. We all love you very much. We prayed for you to join our family for so long. You are a very lucky little boy to have such wonderful parents. You are your Mommy's biggest dream come true. You have a very fun and sweet Daddy. We thank God for you, sweet baby.

Wordless Wednesday: You Are My Sunshine

Gender Issues

Recently I was going through the check-out line at walmart with Kendall. The cashier made a comment about my darling little girl (I agree with this part) and then went on to tell my that people think that she's lucky to have three boys because girls are harder and they're so snotty. I've also had people ask me if Gary was disappointed we didn't have a boy.

Does this

 look like

a disappointed man to you?

My SIL is pregnant with a boy. When she shared the news several people replied with sighs of disappointment. My point is that people need to be careful with what they say and how they say it. I love my little girl so much and it hurts me to hear people make negative statements about parenting girls. My SIL is thrilled to be having a son (and I am to be having a nephew) and it hurts her when people imply a girl would have been better. I have the child that God wanted me to have. She is exactly as He intended. That's what matters. I would love any child that the Lord chooses for me to have NO MATTER WHAT! That's the beauty of a parents love. It's unconditional.